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♫ With no specter to cut off the waves ♫

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♫ With no halo bestowed by heaven ♫

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♫ I should admit I was born ordinary ♫

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♫ But I'm not resigned
to the silence on stage ♫

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♫ Break it down ♫

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♫ I'm taking over now ♫

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♫ Tough it out. That's what I'm all about ♫

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♫ We are destined to
break through a mental wall ♫

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Li,

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it's OK with me.

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You can go and ask for

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Miss He's opinion.

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OK, Qian.

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Qian, this is for you.

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This is a list we've sorted out

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of messages left by people with needs of

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psychological counseling.

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And these are the profiles of counselors

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who have signed up to be Heart Messengers.

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And we've sorted them by visitors

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and counselors.

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Great.

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Then can we

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start matching?

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Yes. But now the problem is

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each counselor

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has a specialization of problems

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they are good at handling.

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And each visitor has

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their own problems.

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Now we are thinking about

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how to match those problems

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in a more effective way.

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Yes.

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Besides, the visitors
are not being specific

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about their demands in
the written documents.

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The bigger difficulty is

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we have no idea

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what exactly

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the visitors' problems are

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from the perspective of
psychological counselors,

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so we dare not recommend
counselors indiscriminately.

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We must be responsible for our listeners.

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Yes. Look at this message.

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She says "I'm burned out every day.

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I'm not interested in anything

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and just want to sleep.

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I feel every day is a torture,

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but I can't figure out why."

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"I have no sense of security.

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Even if he shows me

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all the messages on his cellphone,

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it still doesn't work.

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As soon as he's gone out,

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I stay at home shaking my legs.

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I'm on pins and needles
and can't fall asleep."

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Many people

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don't know

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what their problems are,

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so they can only express

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their feelings,

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which is enough to show they need

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professional psychological counselors

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to clear their confusions for them.

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Li, please bring

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the record of all the visitors to me

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to have a look.

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OK, Qian.

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Qingqing.

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Please print out the keywords
of marriage, relationship,

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family, school, personal and workplace

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for me.

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OK.

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We don't know

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what their problems are…

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But

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we can pinpoint

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the sources of their problems.

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Qian.

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They've been printed.

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OK.

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When we are choosing

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psychological counselors,

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we must have a good grasp of the divisions.

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Let's try to classify them.

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"Whenever I have an exam coming up,

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I get stomach upsets.

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When I go to the hospital,

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doctors say there's nothing
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I don't know if

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it is caused by too much nervousness."

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School.

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When we are choosing

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psychological counselors,

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we must have a good grasp of the divisions.

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Here's one.

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Wang Wenyu,

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Master of Psychology

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from Jingbei Normal University,

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a certified psychological counselor.

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13 years of practice

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with specialization in
individual counseling

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and family counseling.

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Has extensive experiences
in systematic family therapy

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and training.

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Lili.

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I'm back again.

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It was my fault.

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I shouldn't have stopped you

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from pursuing your true love.

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You were right, He Dun.

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What…what happened to your face?

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Are you a victim of domestic violence?

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Let's go and report to the police.

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What are you doing?

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Are you still gonna put up
with him on such an occasion?

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He didn't do it.

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Who did it then?

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His wife.

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By the way,

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let me introduce someone to you.

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She is my…

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Hello.

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I'm Tong Yao,

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Fang Zhongyi's wife.

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Instead of being a domestic hen,

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you want to fly high and become a phoenix?

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Stinky prostitute!

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You are very lucky.

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It's a pity that you
just don't have the fate.

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Will I hold you up

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for receiving visitors?

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No.

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I'll be closed for a few days.

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Why?

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I'm burned out.

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I want to take a few days
off and stay with my mom.

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Take a good rest over the next few days.

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Why don't you scold me?

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You've been conned as well.

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That scumbag is the one to blame.

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But I still feel so bad.

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All right.

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Let's have an analysis.

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What's good about him

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that makes you feel so bad?

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What do you like about him?

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In what way is he good?

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He's nice to me.

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And?

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He's rich.

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OK.

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Are you the only one he's being nice to?

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Can you guarantee

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he'll be nice to you forever?

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Is his money yours?

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Don't you have the money

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he spent on you?

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So what the hell do you feel bad about?

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To hell with the scumbag.

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To hell with the scumbag.

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To hell with the scumbag!

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My garden

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finally becomes alive.

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Just take my home

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as your own home from now on.

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Tell me what you want to eat,

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and then I'll make it for you.

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Young people should eat more meat.

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How old are you,

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Jiahui?

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I was born in 1991.

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In the Year of the Goat?

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Yes.

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So you are a year older than He Dun?

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Yes.

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This is my Telesphorus.

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I remember when I was a child,

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I once fell ill

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and my mother gave this to me.

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I slept with it in my arms

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and recovered straight away.

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Since then,

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it has become my patron saint.

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Now

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I give it to you.

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It means so much to you,

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yet you are giving it to me?

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I hope you can

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get better soon.

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I dropped everything and left.

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This is a mistake I have to bear

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for the rest of my life.

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I left the child to you

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because you had always loved him

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and I hope you could go on protecting him

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and give him a stable life.

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Your mother wouldn't end up like this

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if it weren't for Ji Mingcong.

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After being her tutor for a long time,

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I see her as my own child.

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Have you ever fallen in love with someone?

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No.

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Tang Lili,

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you are so badly injured.

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How are you gonna do boxing?

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He Dun,

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I know you closed your
practice for a few days

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to keep me company.

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But if

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our big-name psychological
counselor Miss He

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is really not available,

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who knows how many people

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would get lost with no way to return?

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So I've decided to do
something for their benefit.

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I'm gonna do boxing

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to vent out my anger.

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Our life has to go on,

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doesn't it?

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But the thing is, I don't
know how to do boxing.

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It's OK. Someone does.

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Qian Kaiyi?

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What brings you here?

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Let me set the record straight.

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I didn't offer to come myself.

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It is Lili who asked me to come.

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Have you recovered from your injuries?

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They are nothing but bruises and scratches.

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Don't worry.

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He Dun,

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I need your help.

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How are you getting on?

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Jab-jab-straight

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is the basic move of boxing.

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Have you heard of it?

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It's often used

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in actual combat.

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I'll teach you later.

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Be careful, you guys.

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Good posture.

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So what?

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So what?

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I asked you to come to take my punches,

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not to teach me how to punch.

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Come on. Show me what you've got.

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Are you ready?

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Come on.

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Punch hard.

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Punch hard, come on.

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Punch hard.

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I can't feel your strength.

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Again!

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Again!

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Punch hard!

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Come on!

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Again!

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Punch hard!

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Tang Lili,

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where are you going?

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Are you scared?

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Who's scared? Come on!

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Come on!

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Haven't you eaten? Give your strength.

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Again!

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Come on!

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Is this all you've got?

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Again!

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Not until the moment I met you

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did I want to settle down

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and be with you.

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I'll certainly give you the best wedding,

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one that you'll like the best.

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When I was a child, I used to dream about

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the scene of my father
seeing me get married.

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He would take my hand

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and give it to my loved one.

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I'll certainly give you the best wedding,

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one that you'll like the best.

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Tang Lili,

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you are really good for nothing.

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You were given only a little sweetness,

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and you've lost your soul to it?

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Are you in need of love so badly?

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Qian Kaiyi.

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Come on.

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Come on!

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Come on, show me what you've got.

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Haven't you eaten?

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Go on!

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Come on.

291
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Tang Lili,

292
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you've been taking a beating

293
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and can't get on your feet.

294
00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:18,910
It looks like you were born

295
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to take a beating.

296
00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:27,080
Instead of being a domestic hen,

297
00:12:27,550 --> 00:12:29,520
you want to fly high and become a phoenix?

298
00:12:35,550 --> 00:12:36,280
Qian Kaiyi,

299
00:12:36,281 --> 00:12:37,349
I'm gonna knock you flat,

300
00:12:37,350 --> 00:12:38,759
or I wouldn't be Tang Lili!

301
00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:39,909
I can't feel your strength.

302
00:12:39,910 --> 00:12:40,440
Come on!

303
00:12:40,470 --> 00:12:41,110
He Dun,

304
00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:42,670
turn off my cellphone for me.

305
00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:43,350
It's so noisy!

306
00:12:43,470 --> 00:12:44,470
I see.

307
00:12:48,790 --> 00:12:49,790
Punch hard!

308
00:12:50,230 --> 00:12:51,230
Come on!

309
00:12:51,590 --> 00:12:52,150
Again!

310
00:12:52,151 --> 00:12:53,951
Use a little bit strength.
Use your strength!

311
00:13:00,710 --> 00:13:01,710
Are you OK?

312
00:13:05,710 --> 00:13:06,710
That's right.

313
00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:11,440
Look.

314
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You won.

315
00:14:20,150 --> 00:14:21,150
Mr. Qian,

316
00:14:21,590 --> 00:14:22,590
take a break.

317
00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:24,000
Thanks.

318
00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:25,320
I'm sorry.

319
00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:26,959
I made you guys pull an
all-nighter with me again.

320
00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:27,880
The work should

321
00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:28,710
be done by us together.

322
00:14:28,711 --> 00:14:30,350
What's there to be sorry about?

323
00:14:30,710 --> 00:14:31,710
Qian.

324
00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:34,030
How much work is left to be done?

325
00:14:36,110 --> 00:14:37,150
Wake everybody up first.

326
00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:38,760
Look, he's sound asleep.

327
00:14:39,030 --> 00:14:40,030
Get up.

328
00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:52,550
It scared the hell out of me.

329
00:14:52,710 --> 00:14:53,470
Get up.

330
00:14:53,550 --> 00:14:54,590
He woke up with a shudder.

331
00:14:54,910 --> 00:14:56,150
Get up. It's getting late.

332
00:14:56,550 --> 00:14:57,320
Let's call it a day today

333
00:14:57,321 --> 00:14:58,401
and go on with it tomorrow.

334
00:14:58,880 --> 00:14:59,880
That won't do.

335
00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:01,760
You let us go back to get some sleep

336
00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:02,879
while you'll probably

337
00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:04,440
work…work extra hours on your own here.

338
00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:07,549
The information for preliminary screening

339
00:15:07,550 --> 00:15:09,030
was almost done this morning.

340
00:15:09,230 --> 00:15:10,230
It's only waiting to be entered

341
00:15:10,231 --> 00:15:11,551
into the Bridge of Hearts System.

342
00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:14,150
Let's divide up the work
again tomorrow morning.

343
00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:41,710
Hello.

344
00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:44,280
Are you here to submit your information?

345
00:15:46,150 --> 00:15:47,150
Could you please tell me

346
00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:51,280
if you have any counselors here?

347
00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:54,320
Which area of counseling do you need?

348
00:15:58,030 --> 00:15:59,030
It's like this.

349
00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:00,109
If we know more

350
00:16:00,110 --> 00:16:01,279
about your needs,

351
00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:02,976
we'll be able to make better
recommendations to you.

352
00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:04,589
As to the content of counseling,

353
00:16:04,590 --> 00:16:05,790
we will not be involved in it.

354
00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:09,840
Forget it then.

355
00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:12,440
Hold on a minute.

356
00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:16,670
These are

357
00:16:16,671 --> 00:16:17,789
the profiles of counselors

358
00:16:17,790 --> 00:16:18,856
which have passed the check.

359
00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:19,920
You can look through them.

360
00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:21,840
Look.

361
00:16:22,030 --> 00:16:23,030
This is Mr. Huang.

362
00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:25,200
He's a national Level-2
psychological counselor.

363
00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:26,280
His specialization is

364
00:16:26,281 --> 00:16:27,761
relationship and marriage counseling.

365
00:16:30,069 --> 00:16:31,069
And here's Mr. Liu.

366
00:16:31,470 --> 00:16:33,470
He specializes in family therapy.

367
00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:34,160
Mainly

368
00:16:34,161 --> 00:16:35,641
parent-child relationship counseling.

369
00:16:36,829 --> 00:16:37,679
And He Dun.

370
00:16:37,829 --> 00:16:38,429
She specializes in

371
00:16:38,430 --> 00:16:39,510
personal growth counseling,

372
00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:41,016
interpersonal and social contact counseling

373
00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:42,430
as well as post-traumatic therapy.

374
00:16:45,069 --> 00:16:45,879
If you have

375
00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:46,880
listened to our show,

376
00:16:47,069 --> 00:16:48,429
you must know something about her.

377
00:16:51,710 --> 00:16:52,430
And these.

378
00:16:52,431 --> 00:16:53,631
You can look through them all.

379
00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:57,880
Thanks.

380
00:16:58,590 --> 00:16:59,790
Please feel free to contact us

381
00:17:00,070 --> 00:17:01,230
if there's anything you need.

382
00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:10,920
This woman

383
00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:12,590
is a bit weird.

384
00:17:28,920 --> 00:17:31,279
Two, three, six, eight.

385
00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:32,480
Don't take too many at a time,

386
00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:34,240
or there will be side effects.

387
00:17:35,470 --> 00:17:36,190
Take the medicine

388
00:17:36,190 --> 00:17:37,040
when you feel you really can't

389
00:17:37,041 --> 00:17:38,281
control your mind and emotions.

390
00:18:31,070 --> 00:18:31,710
Recently,

391
00:18:31,711 --> 00:18:33,830
a man passed out at home
in a residential community

392
00:18:34,110 --> 00:18:35,560
in Jiyang District of City H.

393
00:18:36,590 --> 00:18:38,000
It is reported that the man

394
00:18:38,070 --> 00:18:39,589
had taken a dangerously high dose

395
00:18:39,590 --> 00:18:40,999
of medicine called Prozac

396
00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:41,590
before he passed out.

397
00:18:41,590 --> 00:18:42,000
As per the patient's self-report,

398
00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:43,000
he's been receiving

399
00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:43,880
psychological counseling these days.

400
00:18:43,881 --> 00:18:45,166
However, during the course of therapy,

401
00:18:45,190 --> 00:18:46,589
he decided for himself to take

402
00:18:46,590 --> 00:18:48,040
an antidepressant called Prozac

403
00:18:48,110 --> 00:18:49,349
which can only be taken

404
00:18:49,350 --> 00:18:50,406
under the guidance of a doctor,

405
00:18:50,430 --> 00:18:52,000
so it induced some side effects

406
00:18:52,110 --> 00:18:53,310
such as mania.

407
00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:55,206
When the patient regained consciousness,

408
00:18:55,230 --> 00:18:56,256
he recounted that he had
an argument with others

409
00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:57,830
when he was on medication.

410
00:18:58,190 --> 00:18:58,800
We hereby

411
00:18:58,830 --> 00:19:00,070
remind members of the public

412
00:19:00,310 --> 00:19:01,566
to make sure to take
medicines on doctor's advice

413
00:19:01,590 --> 00:19:03,136
and pay attention to medication safety.

414
00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:04,919
After

415
00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:06,350
criticism and education,

416
00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:09,360
the police decided not to give an
administrative penalty to the man.

417
00:19:15,470 --> 00:19:16,759
Dear listeners,

418
00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:17,949
welcome to stay tuned to our show.

419
00:19:17,950 --> 00:19:18,920
This is Night Talk to Your Heart

420
00:19:18,921 --> 00:19:20,589
of Haifeng Radio International.

421
00:19:20,590 --> 00:19:21,999
I am your emotion listener

422
00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:23,000
Yi.

423
00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:24,880
I am happiness communicator He Dun.

424
00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:26,350
We've received

425
00:19:26,351 --> 00:19:27,616
a lot of feedback from our listeners,

426
00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:29,279
saying that the Say No event last time

427
00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:30,600
gave them a lot of encouragement.

428
00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:31,760
But still

429
00:19:31,761 --> 00:19:33,400
we are sorry to tell you that

430
00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:34,679
the event

431
00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:35,926
has come to an end for the time being.

432
00:19:35,950 --> 00:19:37,399
The message and private mail sections

433
00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:38,919
of our official account are open.

434
00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:40,399
You are welcome to share

435
00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:41,400
your own stories.

436
00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:42,919
After the show,

437
00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:43,880
we received a message from

438
00:19:43,881 --> 00:19:45,401
a long-time listener named Pear Flower

439
00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:46,350
telling us that

440
00:19:46,430 --> 00:19:47,310
she's soon

441
00:19:47,311 --> 00:19:48,590
to be 45.

442
00:19:49,190 --> 00:19:50,399
In order to take care of her family,

443
00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:51,920
the elderly, her husband and children,

444
00:19:51,950 --> 00:19:52,760
she's been

445
00:19:52,761 --> 00:19:54,040
a housewife for 20 years.

446
00:19:54,470 --> 00:19:55,830
After listening to our show,

447
00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:57,040
an idea has occurred to her

448
00:19:57,040 --> 00:19:57,800
for the first time,

449
00:19:57,801 --> 00:19:58,919
which is to say no to

450
00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:00,560
such a mechanical and tedious life.

451
00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:01,950
Before now,

452
00:20:01,951 --> 00:20:03,446
she has never been far away from home.

453
00:20:03,470 --> 00:20:05,429
Now she is about to

454
00:20:05,430 --> 00:20:07,159
cross mountains and rivers on her own,

455
00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:08,350
but she is not afraid.

456
00:20:08,710 --> 00:20:09,640
Deep down, she feels

457
00:20:09,641 --> 00:20:11,070
unlimited freedom and pleasure.

458
00:20:11,710 --> 00:20:12,350
Yes.

459
00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:13,949
Actually, the listener Pear Flower

460
00:20:13,950 --> 00:20:15,159
has impressed me a lot.

461
00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:17,190
Because she said over the past 20 years,

462
00:20:17,350 --> 00:20:18,230
her neighbors

463
00:20:18,231 --> 00:20:19,711
has been addressing her as Mrs. Wang.

464
00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:21,800
The moment she got her driver's license

465
00:20:22,110 --> 00:20:23,159
and saw her name

466
00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:24,309
on the license,

467
00:20:24,310 --> 00:20:25,616
she was overwhelmed with emotions.

468
00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:26,640
At that moment, she thought

469
00:20:26,641 --> 00:20:27,920
she was no longer Mrs. Wang

470
00:20:28,310 --> 00:20:29,710
or her children's mother.

471
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:31,000
She was just herself.

472
00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:32,640
She had her own name

473
00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:34,190
other than the label of housewife.

474
00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:40,160
Exactly.

475
00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:42,189
The Say No theme

476
00:20:42,190 --> 00:20:43,399
has not only brought some comfort

477
00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:44,400
to our listeners,

478
00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,110
actually, in terms of myself,

479
00:20:46,310 --> 00:20:47,760
I've begun to have some new ideas

480
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:49,560
about a lot of things.

481
00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:52,039
I found that all our listeners

482
00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:53,520
talked about their families.

483
00:20:54,110 --> 00:20:55,309
I found that when we were talking about

484
00:20:55,310 --> 00:20:56,070
how to say no

485
00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:56,950
and why we dare not

486
00:20:56,951 --> 00:20:58,040
say no to others,

487
00:20:58,280 --> 00:20:59,230
quite a few listeners…

488
00:20:59,230 --> 00:21:00,230
Hello, Professor Ji.

489
00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:02,160
It's me, Jiahui.

490
00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:04,230
Didn't you say

491
00:21:04,231 --> 00:21:05,566
you'd like to invite
me for dinner last time?

492
00:21:05,590 --> 00:21:06,590
I'm bumming it myself.

493
00:21:10,070 --> 00:21:11,070
But I found

494
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:12,949
once our listeners realize

495
00:21:12,950 --> 00:21:14,280
one's habit and character

496
00:21:14,350 --> 00:21:15,919
stem from one's past growth

497
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:16,950
and experiences,

498
00:21:17,310 --> 00:21:18,230
there will be

499
00:21:18,230 --> 00:21:19,190
a spontaneous change

500
00:21:19,190 --> 00:21:20,070
in their behavior.

501
00:21:20,070 --> 00:21:21,070
That's to say

502
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:22,589
when you find a change

503
00:21:22,590 --> 00:21:23,470
in your heart,

504
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:24,350
the same change

505
00:21:24,351 --> 00:21:26,470
can be found in your
behavior correspondingly.

506
00:21:27,230 --> 00:21:28,519
In fact, the formation

507
00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:30,000
of character in each of us

508
00:21:30,190 --> 00:21:32,709
may have something to
do with family atmosphere

509
00:21:32,710 --> 00:21:33,710
and growth environment,

510
00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:34,920
but please believe that

511
00:21:35,070 --> 00:21:36,159
you can use your strength

512
00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:36,920
to change

513
00:21:37,070 --> 00:21:38,800
and have a new lease of life.

514
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:40,070
Miss He,

515
00:21:40,070 --> 00:21:41,070
I have a question.

516
00:21:41,310 --> 00:21:42,310
When our

517
00:21:42,311 --> 00:21:43,640
personal growth and choice

518
00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:45,310
clash with

519
00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:46,950
our family's expectations,

520
00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:48,949
how should we

521
00:21:48,950 --> 00:21:50,150
make a choice and a trade-off?

522
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,000
I think not just family members,

523
00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:55,160
when our personal choice

524
00:21:55,161 --> 00:21:56,639
clashes with

525
00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:57,800
anybody's expectations,

526
00:21:58,190 --> 00:21:59,920
we should all understand each other

527
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,830
and show mutual support and honesty.

528
00:22:02,190 --> 00:22:03,430
We've seen

529
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:05,040
such kind of people in our lives.

530
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:06,110
They

531
00:22:06,111 --> 00:22:07,430
respond to standards

532
00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:09,520
set by others.

533
00:22:09,590 --> 00:22:10,829
They cater to others

534
00:22:10,830 --> 00:22:11,830
and please others.

535
00:22:12,230 --> 00:22:13,230
They are deeply mired

536
00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:14,950
in the obstinate obsession that

537
00:22:15,230 --> 00:22:16,350
I must do well,

538
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,679
I must be kind

539
00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:19,680
and I must not let down

540
00:22:19,830 --> 00:22:22,000
people who care about me.

541
00:22:22,350 --> 00:22:23,160
Over time,

542
00:22:23,161 --> 00:22:24,686
they speak words that
are not from their heart,

543
00:22:24,710 --> 00:22:26,280
but their mind and body

544
00:22:26,350 --> 00:22:27,350
have been suffering.

545
00:22:27,710 --> 00:22:29,229
By doing so, they are abandoning

546
00:22:29,230 --> 00:22:30,400
individualized development

547
00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:31,470
while hindering

548
00:22:31,471 --> 00:22:33,031
establishment of genuine relationships.

549
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:37,879
All right. Stay with us for more

550
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:39,040
after a commercial.

551
00:22:44,070 --> 00:22:45,070
It's raining hard.

552
00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:46,400
Yes.

553
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:51,710
Thank you, Mr. Liu.

554
00:22:51,710 --> 00:22:52,560
I'd certainly get wet in the rain

555
00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:53,430
if it weren't for you.

556
00:22:53,431 --> 00:22:55,136
It's OK. I happened to be
heading in the same direction.

557
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:56,256
All right. I'm going home then.

558
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:57,400
Take this umbrella with you.

559
00:22:59,230 --> 00:22:59,830
This umbrella…

560
00:23:00,190 --> 00:23:01,560
Is it my mother's?

561
00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:02,430
Yes.

562
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,400
I borrowed it from auntie
during the day today.

563
00:23:05,470 --> 00:23:06,310
How are you going home then?

564
00:23:06,310 --> 00:23:06,830
Take it.

565
00:23:06,830 --> 00:23:07,520
It's OK, it's OK.

566
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:08,190
It's a light rain.

567
00:23:08,191 --> 00:23:09,551
I usually don't carry an umbrella.

568
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:10,280
Thanks.

569
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:11,280
OK. Please go.

570
00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:21,280
Mom.

571
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:29,000
Mom.

572
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:40,310
Mom!

573
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:41,680
Mom, are you inside?

574
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:43,520
Mom!

575
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:47,640
This is the third time

576
00:23:47,641 --> 00:23:48,830
you've pretended to be dead.

577
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:50,310
It's not funny at all.

578
00:24:08,350 --> 00:24:09,350
Mom,

579
00:24:09,430 --> 00:24:10,710
is it not stuffy in the bedroom?

580
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:12,000
Don't forget

581
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:12,590
you daughter

582
00:24:12,591 --> 00:24:13,671
is a student of psychology.

583
00:24:14,310 --> 00:24:15,310
Come out.

584
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:25,760
The umbrella with which

585
00:24:25,761 --> 00:24:27,446
the security guard Mr. Liu
escorted me home is yours.

586
00:24:27,470 --> 00:24:29,016
He said you lent it to him during the day.

587
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,040
But it didn't rain during the day at all.

588
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:43,879
The TV set is still warm,

589
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,279
which shows you turned it off

590
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:46,400
no more than 10 minutes ago.

591
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:48,430
The rain started 15 minutes

592
00:24:48,430 --> 00:24:49,430
before I came home.

593
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:51,376
And the raindrops on the windowsill

594
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,000
show that you've just closed the window.

595
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:54,040
When you saw me coming home

596
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:55,160
from a distance,

597
00:24:56,310 --> 00:24:58,400
you spilled the fake blood you prepared

598
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:00,040
onto the floor.

599
00:25:01,430 --> 00:25:02,160
Meanwhile,

600
00:25:02,310 --> 00:25:03,950
you spilled some on the doorknob as well.

601
00:25:04,310 --> 00:25:05,550
The blood stain on the doorknob

602
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,310
shows you entered the room

603
00:25:08,950 --> 00:25:09,950
from the outside.

604
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,560
Mom, I tell you what,

605
00:25:18,310 --> 00:25:19,679
you've really scared me this time,

606
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:20,680
do you know?

607
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:22,310
I'm not gonna come home

608
00:25:22,310 --> 00:25:23,310
if you do this again.

609
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:26,400
I'm really pissed off.

610
00:25:27,070 --> 00:25:28,070
I'm leaving.

611
00:25:36,070 --> 00:25:37,070
Jun…

612
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:41,160
Jun!

613
00:25:46,430 --> 00:25:47,790
You have blood all over your face.

614
00:25:48,830 --> 00:25:50,040
Like the face of a calico cat.

615
00:25:50,350 --> 00:25:51,550
Don't do this again next time.

616
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:53,360
You scared the hell out of me.

617
00:25:54,470 --> 00:25:56,350
I really didn't mean to scare you.

618
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,166
The last couple of days I was watching…

619
00:25:58,190 --> 00:25:58,920
No touch.

620
00:25:59,110 --> 00:26:00,110
Look,

621
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:02,189
this is a mixture of lipstick

622
00:26:02,190 --> 00:26:03,190
and red wine.

623
00:26:03,230 --> 00:26:04,510
Doesn't it look like real blood?

624
00:26:05,830 --> 00:26:06,830
Yes.

625
00:26:11,110 --> 00:26:12,190
Let me wipe it off for you.

626
00:26:13,710 --> 00:26:15,040
You can smack me

627
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:16,280
if you are angry with me.

628
00:26:17,710 --> 00:26:18,880
Why don't you smack me?

629
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:21,110
No.

630
00:26:21,190 --> 00:26:22,190
Do it.

631
00:26:24,190 --> 00:26:25,400
I just don't want you

632
00:26:26,470 --> 00:26:28,110
to weep secretly.

633
00:27:09,110 --> 00:27:10,680
And bottle up everything in your heart.

634
00:27:14,710 --> 00:27:15,710
I didn't.

635
00:27:16,430 --> 00:27:17,430
Just now I…

636
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:19,280
Just now I was just scared,

637
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,350
so I cried a little.

638
00:27:22,110 --> 00:27:23,430
I'm OK now.

639
00:27:23,470 --> 00:27:24,470
Really.

640
00:27:25,350 --> 00:27:26,350
Are you really not angry?

641
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:30,310
I'm not gonna caress you then.

642
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:33,040
What a nuisance!

643
00:27:35,070 --> 00:27:36,070
What's up?

644
00:27:37,830 --> 00:27:38,950
Didn't you smell…

645
00:27:39,710 --> 00:27:41,400
Something seems to be burned, doesn't it?

646
00:27:42,190 --> 00:27:42,800
Yes.

647
00:27:43,190 --> 00:27:45,000
I made another mistake.

648
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,016
I was cooking pork tripe and
chicken with Chinese pepper for you.

649
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:49,710
It must be burnt.

650
00:27:52,310 --> 00:27:53,760
Why do I keep

651
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:54,949
making the same mistake?

652
00:27:54,950 --> 00:27:55,950
I'm sorry.

653
00:28:56,310 --> 00:28:57,430
What mood are you expressing

654
00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:59,000
with that look on your face?

655
00:29:07,590 --> 00:29:08,590
Being in love?

656
00:29:11,110 --> 00:29:12,110
Being conned?

657
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:16,920
Had an argument?

658
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,230
With such a sharp tongue,

659
00:29:22,430 --> 00:29:24,070
you are not supposed to lose an argument.

660
00:29:29,110 --> 00:29:30,790
Why are you standing in my vegetable plot?

661
00:29:33,470 --> 00:29:35,069
Such a big chunk of you is sticking here,

662
00:29:35,070 --> 00:29:36,070
blocking the sunshine

663
00:29:36,310 --> 00:29:37,589
and taking away the nutrition

664
00:29:37,590 --> 00:29:38,590
of my pakchoi.

665
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:52,680
You are getting shrewd now.

666
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:56,400
You've learnt to cheat your teacher

667
00:29:56,430 --> 00:29:58,550
who's giving you emotional
therapy by way of a sting.

668
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:00,080
I've finished my apprenticeship.

669
00:30:00,110 --> 00:30:01,110
Have I taught this?

670
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:03,110
I didn't cry.

671
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:06,040
You even blame me?

672
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:09,110
The pakchoi is helpless

673
00:30:09,190 --> 00:30:11,800
and ends up as a dish
for people in the world.

674
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:13,000
While you

675
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,136
have no worries about food and clothing,

676
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:16,680
you are doing things you like,

677
00:30:16,710 --> 00:30:17,760
have quite a few friends

678
00:30:18,070 --> 00:30:19,160
and such a good mother,

679
00:30:20,070 --> 00:30:21,830
and you want to compete
against the pakchoi?

680
00:30:25,470 --> 00:30:26,310
Do you think that

681
00:30:26,311 --> 00:30:27,590
once a mistake is made,

682
00:30:28,710 --> 00:30:30,110
there will be no way to fix it?

683
00:30:32,470 --> 00:30:33,829
It's just like a ditch

684
00:30:33,830 --> 00:30:34,830
which is always there.

685
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,070
No matter how hard you try,

686
00:30:37,830 --> 00:30:38,879
toiling and moiling

687
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:40,230
throughout a dozen years.

688
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:42,520
You thought

689
00:30:42,521 --> 00:30:43,880
time could fill everything up,

690
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:46,520
only to find

691
00:30:47,070 --> 00:30:48,920
it's covered with fallen leaves.

692
00:30:50,430 --> 00:30:51,710
Since you couldn't see it,

693
00:30:53,110 --> 00:30:54,560
you thought it was not there.

694
00:30:55,470 --> 00:30:57,030
Actually, it's been there all the time.

695
00:30:59,000 --> 00:30:59,880
This doesn't sound quite like

696
00:30:59,920 --> 00:31:01,560
what a psychological counselor would say.

697
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:06,590
Now I'm just

698
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:07,800
a lost daughter.

699
00:31:11,710 --> 00:31:12,640
My mom asked me

700
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:14,040
to come home for dinner yesterday.

701
00:31:15,350 --> 00:31:16,230
When I was back, I found

702
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:17,710
she was locking herself in the room

703
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:20,360
and the doorknob was covered with blood.

704
00:31:23,830 --> 00:31:25,190
It turned out to be a mischief.

705
00:31:26,470 --> 00:31:27,630
She painted it with lipstick.

706
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:30,880
An old kid's mischief.

707
00:31:31,350 --> 00:31:32,350
How interesting that was!

708
00:31:34,470 --> 00:31:36,400
She started calling me Jun again.

709
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:39,680
She was doing it unconsciously before.

710
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:42,830
But now I'm not sure.

711
00:31:46,470 --> 00:31:47,470
What do you think?

712
00:31:52,310 --> 00:31:53,310
It's raining again.

713
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:08,800
What are you smiling at?

714
00:32:16,190 --> 00:32:17,560
You've given me a conundrum.

715
00:32:20,310 --> 00:32:20,830
Shall I

716
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:21,880
answer it

717
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:22,920
as your teacher,

718
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:24,950
your friend

719
00:32:25,110 --> 00:32:26,270
or a psychological counselor?

720
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:29,520
As a psychological counselor,

721
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:32,160
the first two identities

722
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:33,920
are an impediment.

723
00:32:35,470 --> 00:32:36,470
As a friend,

724
00:32:37,190 --> 00:32:38,550
I'm not good at comforting people.

725
00:32:40,070 --> 00:32:41,110
As your teacher,

726
00:32:41,710 --> 00:32:43,470
what I'm gonna say is even harsher.

727
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:47,880
Go ahead.

728
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:50,830
First, I have to criticize you.

729
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:53,640
Troubles start with solicitude.

730
00:32:55,310 --> 00:32:56,920
You ignored

731
00:32:57,880 --> 00:32:58,680
the simplest question

732
00:32:58,681 --> 00:32:59,961
in your narrative of the matter.

733
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:01,520
Let's first set aside

734
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:03,720
the assumption that she's
blaming you intentionally.

735
00:33:04,110 --> 00:33:05,190
What does your mother's

736
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:07,400
fake death mean?

737
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:10,800
Excessive attention to death.

738
00:33:13,590 --> 00:33:14,790
Because of my younger brother.

739
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:16,800
You are actually not to blame.

740
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:19,800
As her daughter,

741
00:33:20,470 --> 00:33:21,639
you can't make an object analysis

742
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:22,880
of the matter indeed.

743
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,200
Compared with your
brother's death back then,

744
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:29,590
for people of my age,

745
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:32,400
when we get old,

746
00:33:33,469 --> 00:33:35,549
nobody can avoid the
common failing of human nature.

747
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:38,280
It is not death that we fear.

748
00:33:38,870 --> 00:33:39,870
It is

749
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:42,390
separation from our loved ones.

750
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:21,120
She's probably being more concerned…

751
00:34:23,390 --> 00:34:24,630
about her own death.

752
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:33,320
Miss Wen.

753
00:34:35,150 --> 00:34:36,150
Ms. Zhao.

754
00:34:36,390 --> 00:34:37,390
Come in please.

755
00:34:42,950 --> 00:34:43,950
Sorry.

756
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:45,190
Has

757
00:34:45,230 --> 00:34:45,630
your visitor

758
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:47,080
just left?

759
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:48,360
Why did you

760
00:34:48,390 --> 00:34:49,390
come early today?

761
00:34:51,190 --> 00:34:52,190
It's like this.

762
00:34:54,190 --> 00:34:54,630
Thanks.

763
00:34:54,631 --> 00:34:56,190
I like your tea very much.

764
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:01,760
It's like this.

765
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:03,960
At the end of our last counseling session,

766
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:05,190
you said something about…

767
00:35:05,670 --> 00:35:06,670
about…

768
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:07,950
about post-traumatic…

769
00:35:08,190 --> 00:35:09,669
Post-traumatic stress disorder.

770
00:35:09,670 --> 00:35:10,870
Yes, yes, yes. That's the one.

771
00:35:11,230 --> 00:35:12,519
I thought about it back at home.

772
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:14,000
I suddenly thought of something today

773
00:35:14,430 --> 00:35:15,630
and wondered

774
00:35:15,910 --> 00:35:17,670
if it could be related to this thing.

775
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:20,040
Tell me more.

776
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,561
Ever since my younger brother
was washed away by a flood,

777
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,360
I had been blind for a long time.

778
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:34,150
My mother thought

779
00:35:34,151 --> 00:35:36,429
I might have fallen into the river

780
00:35:36,430 --> 00:35:37,469
or bumped into a stone,

781
00:35:37,470 --> 00:35:38,320
so she took me

782
00:35:38,321 --> 00:35:40,080
for a checkup in several big hospitals,

783
00:35:40,230 --> 00:35:41,320
but nothing was found.

784
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:43,600
For a very long time,

785
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:44,910
I liked

786
00:35:44,950 --> 00:35:45,950
going to our balcony

787
00:35:46,430 --> 00:35:47,430
and sitting there

788
00:35:47,431 --> 00:35:49,150
to feel the warmth of the sun

789
00:35:49,630 --> 00:35:50,560
as if I was fearful of

790
00:35:50,561 --> 00:35:52,080
cold and damp places.

791
00:36:16,150 --> 00:36:17,150
Mom,

792
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:20,040
what are you doing there?

793
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:30,320
How long did your blindness last?

794
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:32,670
For about…

795
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:36,360
half a year.

796
00:36:38,150 --> 00:36:39,630
How did you recover from it later on?

797
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:41,670
It was…

798
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:42,870
It was a miracle.

799
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:44,560
Nobody would believe it.

800
00:36:45,150 --> 00:36:46,150
Later on,

801
00:36:46,150 --> 00:36:47,040
I lost hope about recovery.

802
00:36:47,041 --> 00:36:48,390
And I just felt my way

803
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,360
up and down the stairs every day.

804
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:53,840
One day, I was

805
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:55,000
feeling my way along the stairs as usual.

806
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:56,080
My hand suddenly slipped

807
00:36:56,190 --> 00:36:58,080
and I rolled down to
the bottom of the stairs.

808
00:36:58,520 --> 00:36:59,470
When I got up

809
00:36:59,471 --> 00:37:00,576
from the bottom of the stairs,

810
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:01,600
I suddenly

811
00:37:01,950 --> 00:37:03,360
saw everything.

812
00:37:03,910 --> 00:37:06,430
And then there has been no relapse.

813
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:07,390
Up to this day.

814
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:08,840
My eyesight has been good.

815
00:37:10,150 --> 00:37:10,870
Sounds like

816
00:37:11,150 --> 00:37:12,319
your blindness back then

817
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:13,800
was not caused by an organic problem.

818
00:37:15,430 --> 00:37:16,799
Both your blindness and recovery

819
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:18,800
had something to do with strong emotions,

820
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:19,630
which is similar to

821
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:21,120
conversion disorders.

822
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:22,710
Of course, when people

823
00:37:22,711 --> 00:37:24,319
suffer a strong mental shock,

824
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:25,469
it's possible for them to show

825
00:37:25,470 --> 00:37:26,910
symptoms of visual dysfunction.

826
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:28,336
Some people also show symptoms of

827
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:29,150
loss of speech,

828
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:29,870
loss of hearing

829
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:31,520
or paralysis.

830
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:33,040
So do you mean

831
00:37:33,910 --> 00:37:35,949
my trauma and blindness

832
00:37:35,950 --> 00:37:36,950
are interrelated?

833
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:38,880
There is such a possibility.

834
00:37:39,670 --> 00:37:40,520
When people

835
00:37:40,521 --> 00:37:42,230
suffer a strong mental shock,

836
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:44,160
they tend to show a
strong emotional response.

837
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:45,800
When their emotions are not given

838
00:37:45,801 --> 00:37:47,040
a normal outlet,

839
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:48,360
the brain will resort to

840
00:37:48,361 --> 00:37:49,469
a variety of somatic disorders

841
00:37:49,470 --> 00:37:50,190
to eliminate

842
00:37:50,191 --> 00:37:51,760
or mitigate such a response.

843
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:53,909
If such a response

844
00:37:53,910 --> 00:37:54,600
is gone,

845
00:37:54,601 --> 00:37:55,799
can it show

846
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:56,950
I've fully recovered?

847
00:37:57,230 --> 00:37:58,230
Not necessarily.

848
00:37:58,320 --> 00:37:59,150
Associations

849
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:00,520
or reliving your emotions

850
00:38:00,670 --> 00:38:02,120
at the time of the first episode

851
00:38:02,390 --> 00:38:03,910
are very likely to lead to a relapse.

852
00:38:04,230 --> 00:38:05,469
And the relapse is very likely

853
00:38:05,470 --> 00:38:06,560
to be caused by

854
00:38:06,630 --> 00:38:07,560
suggestions

855
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:08,600
or auto-suggestions.

856
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:09,910
Miss Wen,

857
00:38:11,430 --> 00:38:13,760
will I

858
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:15,950
be blind again

859
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:18,950
or be blind forever?

860
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:21,400
You don't have to worry about this.

861
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:22,670
Conversion disorder

862
00:38:22,670 --> 00:38:23,520
is not an imperative problem

863
00:38:23,521 --> 00:38:24,721
for us to solve at the moment.

864
00:38:25,430 --> 00:38:26,800
If there was no relapse back then,

865
00:38:27,190 --> 00:38:28,296
the probability of a relapse

866
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:29,320
is not high.

867
00:38:29,470 --> 00:38:30,230
Just that in the upcoming

868
00:38:30,231 --> 00:38:31,320
exposure therapy,

869
00:38:31,630 --> 00:38:32,360
we need to

870
00:38:32,430 --> 00:38:33,590
take such a risk into account

871
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:35,296
and have a good grasp of
the progress of exposure,

872
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:36,720
and there's not gonna be a problem.

873
00:38:38,470 --> 00:38:39,800
Next, let's come back to

874
00:38:39,870 --> 00:38:40,430
PTSD

875
00:38:40,431 --> 00:38:41,471
we talked about last time.

876
00:38:41,710 --> 00:38:42,000
OK.

877
00:38:42,001 --> 00:38:43,601
Please tell me more about your symptoms.

878
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:43,760
Night Talk to Your Heart
and Say No Special Show…

879
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:54,960
Rank No.1 in audience rating
of shows of the same time slot!

880
00:39:57,910 --> 00:39:58,430
What about the rank in the radio station?

881
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:00,126
What about the rank in the radio station?

882
00:40:00,150 --> 00:40:02,710
Also No.1 of all the
shows of the radio station.

883
00:40:09,470 --> 00:40:10,390
Thank you for your hard work.

884
00:40:10,430 --> 00:40:11,040
Thank you for your hard work

885
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:11,630
Keep up the good work.

886
00:40:11,630 --> 00:40:12,560
Don't horse around.

887
00:40:12,561 --> 00:40:13,870
Go on with your work.

888
00:40:16,670 --> 00:40:18,760
Fortune knocks once at
least at every man's gate.

889
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:19,560
No.

890
00:40:19,561 --> 00:40:20,886
The fortune is ours in the first place.

891
00:40:20,910 --> 00:40:22,080
Yes, Li is right.

892
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:23,870
We've finally got a break.

893
00:40:23,910 --> 00:40:24,630
Indeed.

894
00:40:24,630 --> 00:40:25,360
Indeed.

895
00:40:25,430 --> 00:40:26,759
What are we eating today, Qiao?

896
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:28,840
A maximum of 200 yuan
per person for midnight snack.

897
00:40:28,950 --> 00:40:29,950
200?

898
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:31,629
200 is not OK. Make it 250.

899
00:40:31,630 --> 00:40:33,079
That's not an auspicious number, Qiao.

900
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:33,870
Qian Kaiyi,

901
00:40:33,910 --> 00:40:34,760
Director Pan asked you to

902
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:35,760
go to her office.

903
00:40:36,910 --> 00:40:37,600
I'm going.

904
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:39,320
Wait for me. Wait for me!

905
00:40:39,390 --> 00:40:40,429
Keep it up, Qian.

906
00:40:40,430 --> 00:40:41,430
Keep it up!

907
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:58,320
Mom.

908
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:01,120
Mom.

909
00:41:58,710 --> 00:41:59,710
When we get old,

910
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:02,840
nobody can avoid the
common failing of human nature.

911
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:04,920
It is not death that we fear.

912
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:06,760
It is

913
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:09,230
separation from our loved ones.

914
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:35,840
He Dun,

915
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:36,870
let me tell you…

916
00:42:36,870 --> 00:42:37,870
Qian Kaiyi.

917
00:42:40,470 --> 00:42:42,070
Something seems to be wrong with my mom.

918
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:14,380
♫ Each dawn blooms with a word of flowers ♫

919
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:21,220
♫ Here is an aroma of coffee and you ♫

920
00:43:23,500 --> 00:43:30,740
♫ Whether the haze turns into a rain
or the weather suddenly clears up ♫

921
00:43:31,660 --> 00:43:36,380
♫ I wish to be with you ♫

922
00:43:38,340 --> 00:43:46,340
♫ A shower of rain gently
floats far out of the sky ♫

923
00:43:48,540 --> 00:43:55,460
♫ Taking with it my blue
and cloudy memories ♫

924
00:44:01,740 --> 00:44:08,460
♫ I bloom a scenery as clear as a song ♫

925
00:44:09,180 --> 00:44:16,020
♫ I see your eyes as bright as a star ♫

926
00:44:17,780 --> 00:44:25,220
♫ They warm my smile
and listen to my true voice ♫

927
00:44:26,020 --> 00:44:30,460
♫ Giving me the gentlest response ♫

928
00:44:31,140 --> 00:44:38,740
♫ I see the sudden arrival ♫

929
00:44:39,020 --> 00:44:42,740
♫ Of beautiful love ♫

930
00:44:43,260 --> 00:44:49,820
♫ Holding you hand, I can feel your heart ♫

931
00:44:50,780 --> 00:44:58,540
♫ Holding you hand, I can feel your heart ♫